Anchor acquisition.

We all look forward to an anchor in life...
Anchor in form of a human being not necessarily our life partner or somebody we love or close to...
An anchor could be anybody
Who ignites the determination...
Who satisfy self..
Who helps in recognizing the passion..
Who takes us to our desired platform..
Finding an anchor is our major milestone to finish the life's journey..
Some of us find love in between and settle down thinking it as "the one"
some of them fall flat with a broken heart chasing an undesirable one..
Some cling to the wrong anchor and some just pass by them..
It takes sometimes the entire life to reach to an anchor...and some live without it tooo...
Now how will u know at any stage that u found ur anchor...
We will nt even try finding the answer to this question..this question might not even struck after the discovery..
That anchor takes us along the life journey not making it pain less...but definitely, much meaningful and light..
The good part of the story is..we all are also anchors ..to somebody or another....
I m looking for mine...it might give me more reasons to love myself...i m gearing myself up in quest of the right one!

20 seconds

20 seconds of sheer courage. 
20 seconds of insane bravery.
20 seconds of odd embarrassment...
Only 20 seconds it takes to take a step forward n do what you have been trying to do...
Just those 20 seconds to change your life upside down...
To make it the way u want...
Don't let those 20 seconds run out
Coz thats the only time something can change..
The only time u will nt regret.
The only time u live for urself.
The only time u can stand for it.
Just 20 seconds of insanity.....to the forever of satiety!!!!
Think bout it.

Elective Raising..

This is something i have been seeing for a while....or may be when i m in the shoes...thats why i tumbled upon it...
There are always choices around us...
What we choose makes us what we are..
But the choices once ignored are haunted all over...
I go to parks ...malls everywhere n i hardly see  kids with their mothers...n being a mother i ask myself HOW? do these ladies do that...
I must salute to their courage..
Why we want our responsibilities delegated....
For a little less work...for a little extra effort...for a little more convenience....n a free life as it was before without a kid....
How cn we pass on the most cherishable part of our lives to somebody else...somebody we hardly know....somebody with unfamiliar backgrounds..
Has independence....money...n proving self is more important than raising your own baby...
Is it really Reluctant raisers vs. Enthusiastic ones
No offence to ppl reading it ..who must also be doing it...its a point of view n nt a claim..
But the fact remains....
"Children will not remember you for the material things you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them with."

In self quest

What i want to look for myself...
Is a quest...
Sometimes i m searching for understanding..
Sometimes for happiness
Sometimes for love
Sometimes for companionship..
The self quest is always on in a humans' life..
We keep looking in past ignoring the present...
We try to please ppl and end up pleasing no one...
We find time for everyone but they look more for their convenience...
The accommodation is implied but impatience is sin...
We just keep quiet for good around encouraging self war..
Balance is provided by the nature but self imbalance is human..
Questing for peace and balance with this unstable mind..
To focus on what i want from myself..