Harvesting culture..

Agriculture is an interesting field...
And it closely resembles with human culture...that might be the reason that both of them has the word  CULTURE in it!!
Some days ago i was reading somewhere ...it says that instead of having babies lets plant a tree..
Feed it with the manure...
Watch it grow...
Till the time we will grow old the tree will be big n we can eat its fruit and lie down in its shade....
Suprisingly it was such a connect to me...that i thought i will definately write on it...
Don't we humans do the same...we do whatever it takes for our kids...we watch them grow...n expect them to gift us with their shade in the latter part of life...
But in midst of all this ...we forget that there is a certain time of harvesting!
Every crop or being has a particular time to sow and reap...if nt done on that time...the harvest is wasted...
We forget that similar things happen in our culture...there is a time to sow and reap from your kids...like every crop is different with diff needs...even ur kid is!
The outside weather effect is also an important part...too much rain destroys it..too much sun over ripens it....
Like us...the outside factors are always there to destroy or harm but proper care taken at right time,saves the soul...
But there is something different between them for sure....that is..
In spite of all the care...manure..and proper harvest the yields are for sure...it will definitely turn out well and as expected..
But in our cases even if all the factors are taken care the yields are not sure...we human beings are so volatile in nature...that the nature also gets confused.....
Our culture is so much dependent on the expectations...n humans are not worth expectations!
So why not plant a tree now and then and harvest culture both in nature and self...atleast at the end of it we will make our lives and the world a better place to live in...

In Time

This very innovative movie i saw some days ago...it literally forced me to think of a scenario talked about...so the trading medium or currency was time n not money...for everything to buy...lease...sell...use u had to have time...with the clock ticking with the remaining te of ur life in ur hands...u r bound to lend time from bank with a handsome interest rates..nt even this..u mortgage ur jewellery to get time...thugs n robber steal time...it was a different movie with a surreal subject...but the best and the main part was that u dnt age more than 25 in life after 25 ur clock starts ticking....so even u have million years after turning 25... for those million years u will look the same wen u were 25... hands on to the concept...i wud like to see some more movies with such conception...

Emotions Vs. Electronics

Electronics has engaged us to that level that we hardly think of anything else than them...which phone to buy..what laptop u have..u knw a new ipad has come...how many gbs..how much speed..downloads..uploads...streaming... Technology has definately comfort us but gradually it has clutched us and taken a toll of our emotions...Imagine people nowdays express the feelings through smileys...no offence i also use them...Since the technology has come down to bits level i ponder if we were born in the era when only letters ...telegrams and telephone for that matter..coz at least u could have express through ur voice...what we would have done the whole time! Not only this, sometimes even staying in the same house me and my husband do whats app..obviously after a fight...but we can't deny the usage....These gadgets like..psp..ps3..ipad..tv..etc have even proved a barrier in communicating...ppl after coming back for befor going to office watch tv, waste the precious time they have it with the family...earlier were the times when there had been some talking going in the house.. The worst part is that they have become such an integral part of our lives that neither can we ignore them (otherwise will be called "not updated") and neither can chuck them off ( coz of the utility and somewhere status)...once somebody told me that if really u wanna give up something for sometime (like the ppl do upvaas) or give up food for a day for pleasing GOD they should try giving up electronics for a day...and see what change does it bring to themselves!

Untamed destiny

Destiny...a big word but,cliched big time
This word acts as a saviour for lot of us
Though the due course is untamed but
The usage of the word is fantastically dramatized
A good way to escape from the efforts required
A better way to compensate for the shortcomings
A best way to prove the disability or "impossibility"
poor word! all the expectations,efforts rests on it
It is believed that "Destiny" will miraculously fix life
Life is like a crossword puzzle which is destined to be solved
Hints are also given in real life the same way in puzzle
Although we get some of the hints correct but the rest come to us with time
The same way the life gives us hints all the time to achieve our destiny
But we understand some intially,with our prior experience
and the rest comes with time and efforts
Everyone of us have our own destiny in life
Whatever people say or think it doesn't matter
What matters is achieving it on our own
Destiny certainly is untamed but entirely achievable

Flaws Anyways...

My writing this is to make a point on how we always end up cribbing...
Cribbing on everything around us
Sometimes to pacify and sometimes to satisfy ourselves
The whole lifestyle is dragging us in becoming cribbing souls
We find flaws eitherways...we do the thing or not
People working find flaws in their work..people not working find flaws in not working
People in smaller cities find flaws ..people in bigger cities find flaws
People in joint family crib...people in nuclear family crib..
People in love marriages crib...people in arranged marriages crib
Indians living in India crib..Indians abroad crib
Basically its just about seeing the grass greener on the other side..
and the fun fact is we do our best to find flaws in anything we do
Sometimes even the positive thing is taken as a con
Nevertheless however times i mention the flaw finding ...I am still finding flaws in my writing ...
It will go on and on ...flaws alas!