Don't loose ,love fat!

Fat ...fat..fat ! The most important word round the world, someone wants to loose and someone wants to gain. An unwanted  higher prefrence is been given to it, and suprisingly whether you give 'your weight' much importance or not but other people do!
Besides the health problems, I don't see anything wrong in being fat. I am plump and I love it, does it change my mind or heart or the way I view things or the way I  do with my relationships??
Whats the fuss...why can't people let people be...everything in this world have different shapes and sizes then why not humans? So what if people petite have well formed molecules and perfect metabolism? Whether its xl..2xl..or 3 xl, noone wants to blow out of proportion but some metabolisms does it..! Its all nature if it would have been unnatural God would have made all the people of same shape.
Judgement and comments on basis of weight should be highly restricted, u know what the best dancers..cook..singers..even heroes come from this slot, try not giving such high equations to weight in your relationship..maybe you will loose out someone special or might hurt someone deeply!
Ok now tell me what is the problem if a person doent have vital statistics...uuuh I know actually she/he will not be a treat to watch! As if we care:(
By all this I dont mean to just become fat and not trying loosing my belly..but u dnt know whether why that person is fat and how much of an effort is being done by him/her to defeat the same, unfortunately our society looks up for everything idealistic...Ideal body..ideal features...ideal profession and a long list follows. No one can be perfect so enjoy being imperfect atleast.
This post of mine is just dedicated to all the people who have weight issues...pls enjoy yourselves because the time will fly and don't hook up on the discouragements and unwanted advices..be what you are love urselves! STAY FIT thats what is important and lastly eat well , eat right and don't starve your dear body!Love the fat m sure it will melt its way down;))

Like likelihood

Like what you do....love what you want to do....lf u like it just do it...
Whether its weirdest of things or most unusual in nature..believe me just do it...coz every bit of it will reflect u and who u are...
Get sorted...aim for the next day...plan the time way ahead ..schedule-reschedule do whatever it takes...and do exactly u want to do..
You'll be surprised that more than half of the hurdles get cleared with only the decision of doing it!
Like..love and live it and life will be enthralling you with its wondrous gifts...the serenity and satisfaction of doing something...in spite it being just sleeping till late one morning..
We often sideline our passions and likes....it is important redeem life sometimes..
Redeem your thoughts...hopes...expression... hobbies....
Inculcate habits...plan days...prioritize  ur work order... tackle miseries...
Take up one habit at a time...it becomes easy to inculcate...be creative..positive and confident
Smile and decrease the degree of the hurdles...sometimes in act liking things and u will seriously end up liking it...
A change in perception is required to change the picture...change it often to broaden ur thought dimensions...
Meet...mingle and melt with people around even with the people with  different frequencies...
Travel often..it makes u feel alive. .take up a rocky road or climb uphill a change in the routine is highly appreciated...
So live life king size...laugh...love...meet...mingle...melt..travel....accept...forgive...be positive and rule the world...

Detaching Descendants...

However much we curse the laws of parenting...its the nature who has laid the rules...
Whether plants...animals or humans the nature has defined its way to a cycle from birth to detachment n finally death...
Whether the loaded trees bearing fruits...
Or a bird waiting for its chicks to fly....
Or an animal teaching its offspring to hunt..
Detachment is the way of life..which cannot be overseen...eventually everyone has to go thru this phase of life..
We in our culture still cant deal well with this process...
As the kids grow u are so well kneaded in them that u feel empty at this juncture...
Detachment is the hardest part of any life form....its hard to give away...to let go..
I have a long way to go for this detachment but i cn still feel the pain associated with it...but we cant deny the very laws of nature...as detachment is essential for progress and survival...

Hearts erased Feelings diminished

The current scenario forces me to think on the humanity vanished....
With thousands of ppl stuck in the recent tragedy of uttrakand....and the stories related
Never did the ppl going to a pilgrimage would have thought of such a disaster...
They say that God tests u on ur way to his place....that's why all the holy places are difficult to approach...
But after this tragedy i really think that its not the test he takes....its something we humans make....
He is everywhere ....we make it difficult n name it a pilgrimage...
I knw most of the religious ppl will defy my thought...but think about it..the laws of nature has to be balanced...river beds should be left alone..mountains should not be dug...
Of all the rescue operation this is amongst the top ones...with putting themselves in danger army  rescuing hundreds of ppl 24*7....
Its disappointing and disheartining that instead of helping as much as we can we r making it a political....n engineering issue....
People are robbing...stealing making lives worst of the people already stuck...
Have we really lost it....really we dnt have feelings...n humanity...its a shame on us ......
What will happen with that lil money...no one can make castles with that...its really painful to see the hearts n mind of the people...
Media is trying to make it officially political...leaders trying to cover it up with their crowded vip visits....
There are groups which has come up...to help but what can these few hundreds can do...
Why cant we make it simple and approaching without flabbergasting the whole issue...
At the end we can just help and leave the rest to nature...if death calls..it will call u even from ur air conditioned luxurious rooms...
A helicopter crashed....around a dozen or two killed while rescue.... that is sheer destiny....ppl meant to die will die..come what may...
I have so many examples of hearts erased...while stepping up in bus with my kiddo in one hand n luggage in another...but ppl will never offer a seat....never give way....specially in our country women n women with infants still fail to be catered.....
I cnt do anything but pity on such ppl....m surprised  whetherr they born with it or catch up with society around us....
The food packets did not reach the target ppl...the help cudnt reach the most effected..
Some news channel said that even the rescuers are falling prey to the tragedy n loosing their lives...God should not do that with somebody who save lives....in that case what wrong these pilgrims  have done...they were going for God's blessing only..
I wish this tragedy should have been taken up with more responsibility setting up the standards for any similar tragedies around the world...and raised a level up to compensate the humanity degraded!!!!

Harvesting culture..

Agriculture is an interesting field...
And it closely resembles with human culture...that might be the reason that both of them has the word  CULTURE in it!!
Some days ago i was reading somewhere ...it says that instead of having babies lets plant a tree..
Feed it with the manure...
Watch it grow...
Till the time we will grow old the tree will be big n we can eat its fruit and lie down in its shade....
Suprisingly it was such a connect to me...that i thought i will definately write on it...
Don't we humans do the same...we do whatever it takes for our kids...we watch them grow...n expect them to gift us with their shade in the latter part of life...
But in midst of all this ...we forget that there is a certain time of harvesting!
Every crop or being has a particular time to sow and reap...if nt done on that time...the harvest is wasted...
We forget that similar things happen in our culture...there is a time to sow and reap from your kids...like every crop is different with diff needs...even ur kid is!
The outside weather effect is also an important part...too much rain destroys it..too much sun over ripens it....
Like us...the outside factors are always there to destroy or harm but proper care taken at right time,saves the soul...
But there is something different between them for sure....that is..
In spite of all the care...manure..and proper harvest the yields are for sure...it will definitely turn out well and as expected..
But in our cases even if all the factors are taken care the yields are not sure...we human beings are so volatile in nature...that the nature also gets confused.....
Our culture is so much dependent on the expectations...n humans are not worth expectations!
So why not plant a tree now and then and harvest culture both in nature and self...atleast at the end of it we will make our lives and the world a better place to live in...

Completed 8 at planet Kuwait;)

Planet?....definitely....it has all the characteristics of a planet!
Generally we say time flies...i wish i could have said the same thing for this place too...
U might be curious why? Coz i m without a car n u r im mobile without a car here..so m mostly at home...(writing this)
The culture...the people although are totally different yet enticing..
The glitterati and the flashiness of the country continues from the highest to the minutest levels...
From a diamond embedded car door handles to diamond embedded iphone back covers..
I was amazed with the choice of clothes and how much u can pile one on another while wearing...
Eyes are the sight taken by...the phrase which says eyes is the mirror of the beauty...stand true here...
The desert and the sea...make it stand apart....the controversial nature of the two gives the country the strength it requires..
The noisy beach gives u so much peace at heart and the silent desert forces to self quest..
M nt forgetting the biggest sequences fireworks...which the government bombed their money on was vibrant n worth watching..
The food n delicacies are yummy although the name of the dishes sounds a little weird...shieshas are the favourite pass time...u'll find many joints..
Shopping is THE WORD....from traditional souqs to our dear avenues(mall)
U will find everything here from everywhere in the world...any brand, u name it u have it!
All in all its an experience in itself...the culture is rich and their dedication to pray is in unwavering..
But out of all these factor my biggest factor to stay here is my sibling of course....i m lucky enough to share the same city as hers..thanks to a lot of people who made us so comfortable and at ease...
So completed 8  months at planet q8 and many more to go...lets see how it goes...have to see a lot more sides of this magnificent city. Stay tuned!!!

Anchor acquisition.

We all look forward to an anchor in life...
Anchor in form of a human being not necessarily our life partner or somebody we love or close to...
An anchor could be anybody
Who ignites the determination...
Who satisfy self..
Who helps in recognizing the passion..
Who takes us to our desired platform..
Finding an anchor is our major milestone to finish the life's journey..
Some of us find love in between and settle down thinking it as "the one"
some of them fall flat with a broken heart chasing an undesirable one..
Some cling to the wrong anchor and some just pass by them..
It takes sometimes the entire life to reach to an anchor...and some live without it tooo...
Now how will u know at any stage that u found ur anchor...
We will nt even try finding the answer to this question..this question might not even struck after the discovery..
That anchor takes us along the life journey not making it pain less...but definitely, much meaningful and light..
The good part of the story is..we all are also anchors ..to somebody or another....
I m looking for mine...it might give me more reasons to love myself...i m gearing myself up in quest of the right one!

Elective Raising..

This is something i have been seeing for a while....or may be when i m in the shoes...thats why i tumbled upon it...
There are always choices around us...
What we choose makes us what we are..
But the choices once ignored are haunted all over...
I go to parks ...malls everywhere n i hardly see  kids with their mothers...n being a mother i ask myself HOW? do these ladies do that...
I must salute to their courage..
Why we want our responsibilities delegated....
For a little less work...for a little extra effort...for a little more convenience....n a free life as it was before without a kid....
How cn we pass on the most cherishable part of our lives to somebody else...somebody we hardly know....somebody with unfamiliar backgrounds..
Has independence....money...n proving self is more important than raising your own baby...
Is it really Reluctant raisers vs. Enthusiastic ones
No offence to ppl reading it ..who must also be doing it...its a point of view n nt a claim..
But the fact remains....
"Children will not remember you for the material things you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them with."