Have we ever thought..
what pleasure do we get in gaining sympathy from others?
why we like sad songs more than happy ones?
why we are more attracted to the sadness of life?
why do we brag about our pain?
Why is break up more memorable than falling in love?
why we are haunted with the fear of death and don't find the joy of living
why we think of leaving before we even arrive?
why we find flaws in the people overlooking the good qualities in them?
why do we love bitching about people around us?
why we realize the importance of happiness when it is gone?
why we miss are loved ones and think of things unsaid?
why we repent the past and not enjoy the present?
why bad thoughts come before?
Negativity has grabbed us in its clutches in such a way that...the good things in life have become hideous..
Sadness quietly and dominantly rules our ways of life...lets now define happiness and fill it in our lives..
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Contemplation of the present
Recently i was reading an article by a famous author
He intrestingly says that the contemplation of the present is most important
All our lives we just plan for future or repent for past
We should now gaze upon our present and plan it in such a way that
we live every day as the last day of our life
We meet people as we are meeting them for the last time
We talk to our loved one as we are doing it for the last time
Then only we can relish our present...
He also says that both pessimist and optimist die at the end
The only difference is the way they live their lives
This is a very heart touching quote...i have come across recently
And it forces me to think how much am i living my present and amazingly the answer
came that i am not..
Nowdays we are just running after status,money,materialistic things
and not after relationships,values,traditions which are more important...
(No offence just a point of view)
The future is unceratin and past has gone but present has to be taken care of
My piece of advice "LIVE LIFE DON'T PASS THROUGH IT":)
He intrestingly says that the contemplation of the present is most important
All our lives we just plan for future or repent for past
We should now gaze upon our present and plan it in such a way that
we live every day as the last day of our life
We meet people as we are meeting them for the last time
We talk to our loved one as we are doing it for the last time
Then only we can relish our present...
He also says that both pessimist and optimist die at the end
The only difference is the way they live their lives
This is a very heart touching quote...i have come across recently
And it forces me to think how much am i living my present and amazingly the answer
came that i am not..
Nowdays we are just running after status,money,materialistic things
and not after relationships,values,traditions which are more important...
(No offence just a point of view)
The future is unceratin and past has gone but present has to be taken care of
My piece of advice "LIVE LIFE DON'T PASS THROUGH IT":)
Untamed destiny
Destiny...a big word but,cliched big time
This word acts as a saviour for lot of us
Though the due course is untamed but
The usage of the word is fantastically dramatized
A good way to escape from the efforts required
A better way to compensate for the shortcomings
A best way to prove the disability or "impossibility"
poor word! all the expectations,efforts rests on it
It is believed that "Destiny" will miraculously fix life
Life is like a crossword puzzle which is destined to be solved
Hints are also given in real life the same way in puzzle
Although we get some of the hints correct but the rest come to us with time
The same way the life gives us hints all the time to achieve our destiny
But we understand some intially,with our prior experience
and the rest comes with time and efforts
Everyone of us have our own destiny in life
Whatever people say or think it doesn't matter
What matters is achieving it on our own
Destiny certainly is untamed but entirely achievable
This word acts as a saviour for lot of us
Though the due course is untamed but
The usage of the word is fantastically dramatized
A good way to escape from the efforts required
A better way to compensate for the shortcomings
A best way to prove the disability or "impossibility"
poor word! all the expectations,efforts rests on it
It is believed that "Destiny" will miraculously fix life
Life is like a crossword puzzle which is destined to be solved
Hints are also given in real life the same way in puzzle
Although we get some of the hints correct but the rest come to us with time
The same way the life gives us hints all the time to achieve our destiny
But we understand some intially,with our prior experience
and the rest comes with time and efforts
Everyone of us have our own destiny in life
Whatever people say or think it doesn't matter
What matters is achieving it on our own
Destiny certainly is untamed but entirely achievable
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Flaws Anyways...
My writing this is to make a point on how we always end up cribbing...
Cribbing on everything around us
Sometimes to pacify and sometimes to satisfy ourselves
The whole lifestyle is dragging us in becoming cribbing souls
We find flaws eitherways...we do the thing or not
People working find flaws in their work..people not working find flaws in not working
People in smaller cities find flaws ..people in bigger cities find flaws
People in joint family crib...people in nuclear family crib..
People in love marriages crib...people in arranged marriages crib
Indians living in India crib..Indians abroad crib
Basically its just about seeing the grass greener on the other side..
and the fun fact is we do our best to find flaws in anything we do
Sometimes even the positive thing is taken as a con
Nevertheless however times i mention the flaw finding ...I am still finding flaws in my writing ...
It will go on and on ...flaws alas!
Cribbing on everything around us
Sometimes to pacify and sometimes to satisfy ourselves
The whole lifestyle is dragging us in becoming cribbing souls
We find flaws eitherways...we do the thing or not
People working find flaws in their work..people not working find flaws in not working
People in smaller cities find flaws ..people in bigger cities find flaws
People in joint family crib...people in nuclear family crib..
People in love marriages crib...people in arranged marriages crib
Indians living in India crib..Indians abroad crib
Basically its just about seeing the grass greener on the other side..
and the fun fact is we do our best to find flaws in anything we do
Sometimes even the positive thing is taken as a con
Nevertheless however times i mention the flaw finding ...I am still finding flaws in my writing ...
It will go on and on ...flaws alas!
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Jobless attire
Alright i admit i am jobless for the moment..
actually its been quite a while now..
intially it was a nightmare ...i know a big word..but i felt it is ..
but the circumstance forced me to quit the job..
then eventually the attire become little friendly but i was still desperate..
Thanks to my desperation ..it landed me into a job which was not at all my types..
but i still took it up ..coz it was a "JOB"
So i started with it sincerely just adapting it as the job i might like
But it turned out to be tedious and
Soon i had "it" and i left...
Leaving me with this montonous attire of joblessness
Never did i thought that this attire could bewitch me...
Letting me be free and clear..helping me do things i love
Brought me near to my inner thoughts in form of writing
Brought me more closer to music and movies
Helping me bond closer with my family and friends and helped socialising
Benefitting me in inculcating reading,cooking..and a lot more stuff than i can describe
I may be seeing only one side of the coin or half glass full of water..
people treat it like a sin..."u are having a degree why you do not work.."
Whatever it may be i am enjoying it for the moment..
And "Job Hunt" will be on as usual with that appetite of a better and desirable job..
basically to ensure the full utilization of talent and time...
Eitherways i am doing that..
actually its been quite a while now..
intially it was a nightmare ...i know a big word..but i felt it is ..
but the circumstance forced me to quit the job..
then eventually the attire become little friendly but i was still desperate..
Thanks to my desperation ..it landed me into a job which was not at all my types..
but i still took it up ..coz it was a "JOB"
So i started with it sincerely just adapting it as the job i might like
But it turned out to be tedious and
Soon i had "it" and i left...
Leaving me with this montonous attire of joblessness
Never did i thought that this attire could bewitch me...
Letting me be free and clear..helping me do things i love
Brought me near to my inner thoughts in form of writing
Brought me more closer to music and movies
Helping me bond closer with my family and friends and helped socialising
Benefitting me in inculcating reading,cooking..and a lot more stuff than i can describe
I may be seeing only one side of the coin or half glass full of water..
people treat it like a sin..."u are having a degree why you do not work.."
Whatever it may be i am enjoying it for the moment..
And "Job Hunt" will be on as usual with that appetite of a better and desirable job..
basically to ensure the full utilization of talent and time...
Eitherways i am doing that..
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Flash of the genius
Usually i am a big movie buff specially english movies..
I can do all what it takes to watch at least one a day
So yesterday i encountered an amazingly inspiring movie.."Flash of the Genius"
The hero of the movie greg kinnear is shown to have fought the court case for damn 12years just to get the recognition for the invention he did..which a company copied..
I am telling you its a treat to watch..
This guy lost everything in life family...money
But he fought the case on his own with no lawyer ready to fight his case..
At the end of the fierce and tiring 12 years, he got the recognition and a handsome amount..
He was so confident that he could fix it ...never lost hope..just hung to it till the end..
I have read somewhere that the people who are over confident follow the rules
and the ones who are confident follow exception
I was wondering these artistic guys are so madly passionate about their stuff..
They can go to any level to make it real and going..
But somewhere i feel the same passion is shared with people with little or nothing to loose
Coz they can put in their 100 % without any fear to loose..and ofcourse the urge to get on the top as they are haunted by their lifestyle
Normal people like us have to put alot effort to get that passion..lot of fears engrave..
A lot of times we become passionate but the passion falls short in becoming a mania
and until unless it doesn't gets into the head like a mania ..things just doesn't happen
On similar lines i have also seen a movie called "Erin Brokovich"
As again it is a fabulously inspiring movie..makes you to think..don't just be another lamb in the herd..raise voice for justice..
The way passionately Julia Roberts goes all around the issue and finally helping the people with justice..
It requires a lot of courage i would say ..to be different and stand for it till the end..
Seeing these exhilarating people..sticking to a thing ....makes me have those goosebumps..
I crave, if I can have even 1/4 of that kind of a passion to make my dreams come true!!
Do watch them if you get a chance...they are eye opening..
I can do all what it takes to watch at least one a day
So yesterday i encountered an amazingly inspiring movie.."Flash of the Genius"
The hero of the movie greg kinnear is shown to have fought the court case for damn 12years just to get the recognition for the invention he did..which a company copied..
I am telling you its a treat to watch..
This guy lost everything in life family...money
But he fought the case on his own with no lawyer ready to fight his case..
At the end of the fierce and tiring 12 years, he got the recognition and a handsome amount..
He was so confident that he could fix it ...never lost hope..just hung to it till the end..
I have read somewhere that the people who are over confident follow the rules
and the ones who are confident follow exception
I was wondering these artistic guys are so madly passionate about their stuff..
They can go to any level to make it real and going..
But somewhere i feel the same passion is shared with people with little or nothing to loose
Coz they can put in their 100 % without any fear to loose..and ofcourse the urge to get on the top as they are haunted by their lifestyle
Normal people like us have to put alot effort to get that passion..lot of fears engrave..
A lot of times we become passionate but the passion falls short in becoming a mania
and until unless it doesn't gets into the head like a mania ..things just doesn't happen
On similar lines i have also seen a movie called "Erin Brokovich"
As again it is a fabulously inspiring movie..makes you to think..don't just be another lamb in the herd..raise voice for justice..
The way passionately Julia Roberts goes all around the issue and finally helping the people with justice..
It requires a lot of courage i would say ..to be different and stand for it till the end..
Seeing these exhilarating people..sticking to a thing ....makes me have those goosebumps..
I crave, if I can have even 1/4 of that kind of a passion to make my dreams come true!!
Do watch them if you get a chance...they are eye opening..
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Unreasonable Reasons
This is something we all must of done it sometime or the other in life..
Unreasonable reasons knowingly or unknowingly
Reasons have this humungous flair of turning the situation around
Can't steal away the wittiness from them !
Go down the memory lane..
Remember the reasons for throwing chalks in the classroom..
Bunking classes to watch movies..
The reasons for staying out for a party at night...
Breaking out from the hostel...just like that
The reasons to meet the person you love...secretly
going out on those magical dates along
The reasons for not passing with flying colours
proving every minute of exam preparation..
The reasons for not being in touch or missing important dates
Missing the calls and messages
The reason to take a holiday from your boss
Getting sick is such an handy option..
The reason given to wife for coming late from office
Whether over timing or office parties
The reasons for fighting over and over again
just to gain attention..
These reasons have touched our lives so deeply that they merely seem UNREASONABLE
Unreasonable reasons knowingly or unknowingly
Reasons have this humungous flair of turning the situation around
Can't steal away the wittiness from them !
Go down the memory lane..
Remember the reasons for throwing chalks in the classroom..
Bunking classes to watch movies..
The reasons for staying out for a party at night...
Breaking out from the hostel...just like that
The reasons to meet the person you love...secretly
going out on those magical dates along
The reasons for not passing with flying colours
proving every minute of exam preparation..
The reasons for not being in touch or missing important dates
Missing the calls and messages
The reason to take a holiday from your boss
Getting sick is such an handy option..
The reason given to wife for coming late from office
Whether over timing or office parties
The reasons for fighting over and over again
just to gain attention..
These reasons have touched our lives so deeply that they merely seem UNREASONABLE
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