Miraculous Motherhood

After successfully tackled mood swing periods and all the anticipation...I finally welcomed motherhood with open hands..September 8th marked the beginning of the new me..little fingers,little nose and a tiny head elated all the feelings I had before him...he looked exactly like his dad..same forehead and chin..after holding him for the first time in my hands i realised what it means...why people say that a baby gives birth to a mother....the feeling in unexplainable and divine!!! The hardships borne all the way to this destiny vanish away at that very moment..You just become the universe of your little one..the only one with whom the baby connects to the whole world, the one whose smell is the only thing the baby reconizes...absolute pleasure..I am loving every bit of it ....

Making a comeback

Coming back to my blog is like coming back to myself...have taken a brief break for a big thing in my life "MOTHERHOOD" although i am gonna write on that too...I missed it...will try to be regular though

Constant judmental

The forever on going thing which we come across is being "judgemental" or "judged"
By the way my question is ..who gives us the power of being judgemental about other person's life
Proving things right or worng is nobody's business coz who has termed or certified their theory of correctness
Everybody has the right and freedom of living in their own way, carry their own perspective.
Constant judgemental is faced in almost all situations whether:
making decision, performing action, appreciation/criticism,maintaining relations
This fear is somewhere deep inside all of us .
Running away or not performing is not the solution instead belief and avoidance is
Believe in yourself and rest will fall in place ..
Avoid it so that it does not weakens you and you can go on with ur own set of virtues..
BE YOURSELF

Mile Tum

Jis din mile tum
Jeevan mein bhar gaye naye rang
Iss kadar chaaye dil per tum
Ki badla har dhang
Shuruat thi nayi aur kathin
per sab tha aasan tumhare sang
Samaye ke saath sab badla
Aur aaj humari zindagi mein hain ek nai tarang
Kash ki tum pehle milte
Bhar jaati iss jeevan mein aur bhi zyaada umang..

Birds of feather flock together...

True indeed...birds of feather flock together
To fit into others frame of mind we tend to behave like them ..in a flock
But once we become friends we just loose that added characterstic...
Thats why a lot of times we make friends real soon and loose them sooner than that
Its hard to maintain our individuality in order to please people
It is rightly said that we everybody around u is happy with u then something is wrong as u can't please everybody!
We shoud carry our own attire while making new relationships so that they last long..
Coz only genuine relationships accepts u as u are..

Soulmate System..

I was recently reading this book...on life and soulmates
So according to the book each soul divides itself when incarnated
One part of which is male and another is female
Therefore u will always have a soul mate and you should try searching for them
It will cross u somewhere for moments or for years ..but u have to identify
They say that Adam's soul divided to give birth to eve..thats how they met..
It even says that you can have more than one soulmate..since a soul keeps on dividing on every incarnation
That generally leads to pain and suffering...
The point here is that if the souls have been divided for so long why are they not becoming weak...
So the book says that they don't become weak coz in every life they find love which gives them power...
As per this theory its strange to understand the soulmate system..that someone somewhere is made for uand u have to chase
What if....we find a wrong person and feel that they are our soulmates
what if...we never find a soulmate or fail to identify...
Heart and eyes play a major role...whenever heart pounds for someone real fast...or u see a twinkle in someone eyes every time they see you
He/she is the one...just don't loose any opportunity to spend a lifetime..

Phase marches in and out

How hard a situation is ...it just vanishes after a while or rather calms itself
First we face it for the first time and slowly we be-friends it...
Phases of all sorts whether good or bad...whether fleeting or dawdling...they say..this too shall pass...
The vicious circle of our petty pity, anger..and frustration marches out with time...
Time,they say heals...heals watever remains as the grudge in heart..
Time has the power to set thing on right track at right timings...
We have to just trust our time...have to keep patience n positivity..
So next time when the phase marches in... just be pragmatic coz it will march out soon:)