Khamakhan ki zindagi..Matlab ki duniya

Kabhi tanhan sochti hu to yeh paati hu ki kitni bewajah hain zindagi... khushiyon ke hote hue bhi phiki.. Na koi tammana na koi ggaruzarish bas ek saadi zindagi.. kahi kho diya apne aap ko iss beech.. chalo khud ko dhudne ka ek zariya hi bana le zindagi.. Chahat se bhare is jahan mein matlab se bhare log kaash koi apni chaap bhi chod paata zindagi.. soche agar jeene ka matlab hi matlab ho .. to kaisi hogi yeh zindagi... kuch vaade..iraade...bharose..is kadar kuchal jaate hain ki raas hi nahi aati yeh zindagi Agar yeh matlab shabd hi nahi hota is duniya to kya khoob hoti zindagi.. Log na badlte..na faasle badte..na nafrat hoti.. to shayad behtareen hoti zindagi..

Distances and Differnces

Distances and Differences are just in mind...Both these words empty you inside out but seriously they just play in your mind..A lot of distances end up in differences which in turn spoils the relationshipDistances can be covered through miles but differences can't be met upOnce differences are created however much u try ..even solved still that pinch is there always in that relationship...Distances either creates an urge to meet up or an urge to run away..Sadly as humans we can't keep up more with the distances..it takes a whole lot of toll of our lives...We are so adaptive to our current surroundings that sooner or later we customise ourselves according to it...Differences are rarely confronted and even if confronted becomes the bottleneck...Its like the whole picture doesn't turns out the way it should be..a relationship like body without soul....It's just diminished...I am just in the phase of distances..trying to cope up with it ...hope will get the support from the other side too to keep up :))

Fervent Friends

This friends forever cliche is very common...but sooner or later as we grow in life this takes a back seat...but there are friends who are everyday friends...these are friends u need atleast once a day...friends who are so dear to u that u dn't feel complete if u dnt talk to them in a day or maximum twice in the week...waise i am too bad at keeping friendships...but i am lucky that atleast these people are still thriving with me...i really want to thank them with all my heart through this post although hardly we express how we feel ...as friendship doesn't requires that ..but still i realise how wonderful it is to have somebody to bitch with...shop with..laugh with...the feeling that somebody's is there when u want to speak ur heart out ...with whom u can be the way u are...who are always available to talk to u whether however much busy they are...there are some friends i have whom i am in very less contact ...i feel the same for them coz i can't forget the time spent with them...So all u gals thanks for being there of and on in my life...u make it really special for me...and be there the way u have been...naughty and nice...

Those 21 days

Lately my brother in law and I decided to take up a thing which we want to include in our daily routine but are not able to..to do the same we decided to follow a tried out method of 21 days...according to that method if you do a thing continuously and regularly for 21 days ..bang on..it becomes your habit..sounds easy ?? But it isn't ...21 days ..forget it I will notbe able to do it continuously for 10 dAys or so...those 21 days are not for ur habit but I think for ur determination...determination comes with the result if u do anything for 21 days..definately the result will come and hence the determination...I have took up the option of two things to jog for 20 min daily and to write daily...although both of them are quite easy ones ...but the lack of determination steals it all...let's see if I can do justice to what I have taken up for these 21 days..and at least let my determination built up..

Miraculous Motherhood

After successfully tackled mood swing periods and all the anticipation...I finally welcomed motherhood with open hands..September 8th marked the beginning of the new me..little fingers,little nose and a tiny head elated all the feelings I had before him...he looked exactly like his dad..same forehead and chin..after holding him for the first time in my hands i realised what it means...why people say that a baby gives birth to a mother....the feeling in unexplainable and divine!!! The hardships borne all the way to this destiny vanish away at that very moment..You just become the universe of your little one..the only one with whom the baby connects to the whole world, the one whose smell is the only thing the baby reconizes...absolute pleasure..I am loving every bit of it ....

Making a comeback

Coming back to my blog is like coming back to myself...have taken a brief break for a big thing in my life "MOTHERHOOD" although i am gonna write on that too...I missed it...will try to be regular though

Constant judmental

The forever on going thing which we come across is being "judgemental" or "judged"
By the way my question is ..who gives us the power of being judgemental about other person's life
Proving things right or worng is nobody's business coz who has termed or certified their theory of correctness
Everybody has the right and freedom of living in their own way, carry their own perspective.
Constant judgemental is faced in almost all situations whether:
making decision, performing action, appreciation/criticism,maintaining relations
This fear is somewhere deep inside all of us .
Running away or not performing is not the solution instead belief and avoidance is
Believe in yourself and rest will fall in place ..
Avoid it so that it does not weakens you and you can go on with ur own set of virtues..
BE YOURSELF