Anchor acquisition.

We all look forward to an anchor in life...
Anchor in form of a human being not necessarily our life partner or somebody we love or close to...
An anchor could be anybody
Who ignites the determination...
Who satisfy self..
Who helps in recognizing the passion..
Who takes us to our desired platform..
Finding an anchor is our major milestone to finish the life's journey..
Some of us find love in between and settle down thinking it as "the one"
some of them fall flat with a broken heart chasing an undesirable one..
Some cling to the wrong anchor and some just pass by them..
It takes sometimes the entire life to reach to an anchor...and some live without it tooo...
Now how will u know at any stage that u found ur anchor...
We will nt even try finding the answer to this question..this question might not even struck after the discovery..
That anchor takes us along the life journey not making it pain less...but definitely, much meaningful and light..
The good part of the story is..we all are also anchors ..to somebody or another....
I m looking for mine...it might give me more reasons to love myself...i m gearing myself up in quest of the right one!

20 seconds

20 seconds of sheer courage. 
20 seconds of insane bravery.
20 seconds of odd embarrassment...
Only 20 seconds it takes to take a step forward n do what you have been trying to do...
Just those 20 seconds to change your life upside down...
To make it the way u want...
Don't let those 20 seconds run out
Coz thats the only time something can change..
The only time u will nt regret.
The only time u live for urself.
The only time u can stand for it.
Just 20 seconds of insanity.....to the forever of satiety!!!!
Think bout it.

Elective Raising..

This is something i have been seeing for a while....or may be when i m in the shoes...thats why i tumbled upon it...
There are always choices around us...
What we choose makes us what we are..
But the choices once ignored are haunted all over...
I go to parks ...malls everywhere n i hardly see  kids with their mothers...n being a mother i ask myself HOW? do these ladies do that...
I must salute to their courage..
Why we want our responsibilities delegated....
For a little less work...for a little extra effort...for a little more convenience....n a free life as it was before without a kid....
How cn we pass on the most cherishable part of our lives to somebody else...somebody we hardly know....somebody with unfamiliar backgrounds..
Has independence....money...n proving self is more important than raising your own baby...
Is it really Reluctant raisers vs. Enthusiastic ones
No offence to ppl reading it ..who must also be doing it...its a point of view n nt a claim..
But the fact remains....
"Children will not remember you for the material things you provided but for the feeling that you cherished them with."

In self quest

What i want to look for myself...
Is a quest...
Sometimes i m searching for understanding..
Sometimes for happiness
Sometimes for love
Sometimes for companionship..
The self quest is always on in a humans' life..
We keep looking in past ignoring the present...
We try to please ppl and end up pleasing no one...
We find time for everyone but they look more for their convenience...
The accommodation is implied but impatience is sin...
We just keep quiet for good around encouraging self war..
Balance is provided by the nature but self imbalance is human..
Questing for peace and balance with this unstable mind..
To focus on what i want from myself..

Fast and Frozen

This is another defination of this hi-tech, fast paced, inglorious life....FAST coz its just running and running all across the dimensions...all the time . FROZEN not only for the frozen meals but also for the frozen emotions....imagine the time which has come which is so hypersonic that even if we try catching up ....we just loose it! Can't believe that ppl have no time for eating fresh they rather prefer eating frozen or ready eat...plssssssss u earn and live for eating...don't do this to ur self....come on ! It's a crazy world out there...although I belong to this generation still I m sad to agree that yaa this is an age to overpass, preclude,void all meaning the same ...missing out to something who is ur family and U ....for which it all started ....I dunno how they survive with an overriding attitude and never ending demands....I don't understand the conclusion if the purpose is not met....just rushing...and managing to eat....and feeling sorry for have not been able to spend time with ur loved ones ...how far will this fast and frozen life go....wen will people have time to eat and be merry ....actually we humans have the tendencies to testing our upper limit...to stretch ourselves to the greatest horizons and going out of way to achieve or prove the point ...earn money for frozen food or nil relations...empty health or loosing self..?

Recurring reconsiderations

Ok so I started reading my older writings and blogs and I feel so full of emotions...and reconsider my thoughts and state of mind at that point of time when I wrote those....it's so strange to feel as if they are written by somebody else and not me....writing is a meditation which makes me loose myself....just the madness of penning down about how it is! It's bud to just peek in ur own self for a while in this life...can't tell so many thoughts gushing to the millionth speed in my mind...zooming over I...me...myself .....recurring reconsiderations over my trails...sheer madness

Cosseting Colors

Colours are radiant and charismatic...thats why are celebrated with vibrant festival of Holi...Emerged from mythology to modern day fun...this festival has importance than none..colours are powerful and personified signifying various expression of our lives...so this time i m playing Holi nt only for fun...but with determination to bring a character spun ;)..this Holi
Submerge urself in the colour RED to rejuvenate love n compassion
Indulge in colour YELLOW to provoke wisdom and happiness...
Mix in colour GREEN to add meaning to life and life forms...
Dip in colour BLUE to bring peace n spirituality...
Engross in colour PURPLE to raise the royalty in u..
Plunge in colour ORANGE to ruffle vitality and endurance...
Soak in the colour WHITE to purify and cleanse..
Immerse in BLACK to outcast the outer world in dive in urs..
Cheers to colours n life:)