Experiences' Mouthpiece

I have concluded some things on based of my experience in life till date:

1. Everybody is in the race of success and wealth...and the worst part it ..if u are not in the race...phew u are damn inferior and out of the league
2. It should not matter what the other person is saying or doing..we should just do what we want to do with full happiness and satisfaction ...absolutely no comparisions!
3.There is no relationship as "best friend" ..all are friends at their own convience.
4. More time given to a person = you are taken for granted and you are treated as completely vella
5. Job is the only religion and nothing else
6. Socialising is a myth , privacy and please leave me alone are in fashion.
7. The stronger you behave, the weaker you are taken.

Either my way of living is too different or may be wrong but i really wanna say this--People please start living this is just one life one time..just listen,smile,chuck and move on..Talk your way out instead of those perceptions..people say they don't have time...what they are saying is cent percent correct...they don't have time to live,laugh,talk or rather exist!

Expression embeded words..

Randomly think about any word say "COLOURS"
the word itself is so vibrant and mesmerizing
Or lets say "COMFORTABLE"
I m so sure u feel that as soon as u pronounce that
The mood swings with the words "SAD","HAPPY","ANGRY"
The word "IRRITATING"
makes u feel the same and even worse
Say "MONEY" and we find ways to get it or rather spend it
How these words and there usage brings them to life
Words can express a lot more than us
I sometimes think why these words don't have that much of a power
to control mind...
Think if we would say "THINK" then only it would think
If we would say "TENSION" then only it will take tension..
If these words could control mind ..half of the problems would vanish..
For now lets say " PEACE" ...my mind is ticking to it...

A new address

I have a "NEW ADDRESS"!
Its another way of saying that i have bought a new home..
its a great feeling to own and design
To fill it it with all the ideas u had till date of your dream home
I have been doing the design stuff since 4-5 months
I have seen it becoming a home from house
and now finally it is over...
Have tried to bring ideas to realty..lets see how much justice have i done
But can't believe that what was on paper till yesterday
Is real today!!
I hope this home continues to stay a dream home..with all the joys fulfilled

Anjaani manzil

Jitna pakdti hu us reth ko hateli per
Utna hi daaman chudati hain yeh..
siskiyon mein simti hain zindagi is kadar
ki ashk bi lagte paani se yeh..
Samajh nahin aata ki samjhau unhe kis tarah
ki ab hum ho gaye juda juda juda se..
Ae kash aisa hota ki hum jo cahhe waisa hota
ki ab to mangte hain khuda se dua yeh..
Kisi raah mein mil jaaye aise
ki nadi aur samundar bhi le humse misal yeh..
Kehte hain samjahdaar yuh to sabhi hume
per phir bhi apne per aitbar ki kami ka ehsaas sa hota hain
Yun hi basar ho gai zindagi agar
to ek bhoj hamesha rahega mann per
ho sakta hain guzar jaati apni chahat ki buniyad per yeh..
Chod di hain zindagi takdeer ke bharose
dekhte hain le jaati hain hume kahan yeh..

The ecstasy called "Shopping"

OMG..I was coveting to write bout shopping...
Personally there's only one thing i do with full zest and that is "Shopping"
This addiction is also termed as Oniomania...
I recently watched a movie called confessions of a shopaholic..
I loved the flick..the way they have shown the mindset of a shopaholic
How when the actor passes by the store, the mannequin urges her to buy.
But it actually happens..the same way..uncontrollable
Later in the movie.. the guru who helps in reducing the shopping suggests
Whenever you wanna buy any stuff ..just ask yourself --" do u need it "
So i tried this onetime ...and first the answer came no..but then it came ..may be not ..i don't have the same colour...
The pleasure of having the possession post purchase is divine
That feeling of ownership fills your heart with so much of content
Shopping also overcomes the mood swings...
I am telling you ..whoever doen't enjoy shopping is missing one of the good things in life..
The colours..textures..just woo your heart away..into an another world..
I may be speaking french for some but for others who understand what i am saying this will surely click :)))

Practical or Emotional?

For all the people who are emotional fools like me..gonna like this
For someone who is practical and logical all this is meaningless..still there is no harm reading..
I wonder how one can be so logical and practical ...
That all the emotions just doesn't reach em'
I think they just create a world based on logic and close all the gates entering that world..so that they can't think above and beyond it...
Likewise even emotional people like me also build a world full of emotions and feelings...and the worst part is we open the gates for all..so that they come and shatter it..
A lot of times we encounter people who plot against us, harm us,hurt us...
Logic driven robots (i'll call them) remain untouched
Emotions driven fools injure their hearts gravely ...
Sometimes i feel being logical is the right approach towards life it is harmless...planned...with set rules
The other times I firmly believe that rather living with rules and indifferent attitude...it is better to feel..express...
Atleast speaking out the emotions is better than reserving it or not speaking it at all ...
So that we don't end up in repenting solitude...for those unspoken emotions..
Balancing both might be a way out..lets c i am gonna try that !

Feels stuck..and sticky

Do you ever feel ..stuck or sticky..
I am sure all of us feel that way every now and then..
Basically when things are going out of control or what we wish does not happen
Everything seems so clumsy..a single day seems like an year and we want to run away to peace
But where is peace if it is not within us...
The situation , person,expression, action which makes us feel stuck should be uprooted there and then
But since we are stuck ...it sticks to us for life whether we like it or not
What I have realised that it is only the mind which plays all the games
Sometimes fills us with utter happiness and sometimes with deep sorrows
Sometimes makes us comfortable and sometimes sticky
At once it wants to live the whole life like that, the other time it wants to have space.
Though everything has its P's and Q's ..we cannot forget the lovely times for those sticky ones..
All what we can do is ..whenever those sticky ones arrive ..think about the lovely ones which will be coming after those..:)
Cheers